Break The Circular Intergenerational Pattern of Family Addiction
Ibogaine for Addiction, Alcoholism and Drug Addiction is very effective if you want to cessate or stop using and/or drinking. Addiction commonly runs in families and is inter-generationally passed forward. For example, a child growing up might experience his/her father's or mother's "modeling" of drinking/drug habits with respect to certain situations, emotions and behaviors. Children will internalize their adults' "Modeling" behaviors and have easy access to them later on in life. . ..meaning the road has been paved for them and it is easy to follow . .. . .though that road may not lead to ideal places.
Later in life, that child will unpredictably be exposed to various patterns, emotions, behavioral states, interactions with others' and senses of vibration (both internally and externally) that are familiarized/habituated and associated with respect to that individual's childhood exposures (vicariously) to drugs and alcohol.
Not to mention that various TIME related occurrences may hinder an individual from getting sober. For example, family gatherings for social events such as Birthday Parties, Rumspringa, Bat Mitzvah, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New years, stressful work situations are often accompanied with time and drug usage/alcohol abuse. These are referred to in therapeutic language as SUGs or Sudden Urges of Griefs.
As that child gets older, perhaps, into the teen years, perhaps later on in life, when emotional vibrations and feelings are internally similar to the way these feelings felt growing up, the first solution to assuage, rectify or fix the problem is to pick up a drink or a drug, as that is the utilizing tool in which they have been taught to manage.
"The Real Existing Problem" is below the surface of drugs and alcohol. Drugs and Alcohol are seriously not the problem. The problem is the "coupling effect" of dealing with emotions and the utilization of skills and tools that people have been taught growing up. What are these tools? Alcohol and Drugs.
Not only are addicts and alcoholics more prone to developing the disease of drug addiction if it runs in the family, but often, the interpersonal family dialoguing revolves around addiction. The amount of talk and words surrounding drugs and alcohol in a drug addict family system contributes to about 85% of all conversational dialogue. So where is everybody's focus? . .. On the problem, thus perpetuating the problem and masking the surface problems of drugs and alcohol.
One way to start breaking free of Addiction - is to invite open space into the dialogue and connection with other verbage, or talking about material separate from anything related to addiction. Talk about the trees, talk about activities, do activities . .. .one little step at a time, fill this newly opened 85% space with new material. IF FAMILY MEMBERS WANT TO CONTINUE TO TALK ABOUT ADDICTION, - TAKE BACK YOUR POWER AND CHANGE CONVERSATIONAL PLATFORMS. Also remember that "TIME TAKES TIME."
The more an individual and/or families focus on the problem of addiction and talk about the problem of addiction, the problem actually ends up unintentionally getting exacerbated. This holds true even if the focus on talking about the problem is attempted in a solution focused direction. One will often unconsciously create the exact opposite of what s/he wants. "Isn't it ironic - don't ya think" (Alanis Morrissette).
Now, with this free therapeutic tip, offered to you by Lily Kotila, M.A., M.A.T. PhD(c) - if you are not yet aware, let me EXPAND YOUR MIND a little further. IF IF IF IF IF IF IF IF IF YOU WANT TO STOP DRINKING OR THE USAGE OF DRUGS, there is a Plant Medicine from Gibon, known as Ibogaine. Ibogaine works as an "Addiction Interrupter." Ibogaine rewires the neuro-circuitry of brain, both in your head and via your Vagus (#10) Nerve that invigorates your stomach area.
This second brain actually has more neuronal synapses and connections than your Central Nervous System. Ibogaine is ingested orally and therefore diffuses through the cells of your gut, spreading slowly through your body, thus drastically eliminating withdrawal symptoms.
Ibogaine is straight from "Source," . . . . .the Earth, where the natural basic elements for healing can be found. (The Yew Tree - directly from the Rainforest was actually the first tree in which scientists discovered a cure for Cancer) . . .Rather than getting caught up in the world of Big Pharma, you can transcend it by avoiding all the molecular changes and alterations made by MDs/Humans/Laboratory Analysis within the medications you are abusing. (Speaking of the "Yew," Tree, some people have sought out Ibogaine for the eradication of cancer, especially in the form of microdosing).
Lily J. Kotila
M.A., MA.T., PhD(c)
EMDR I, EMDR II, Hypnosis